Tony Robbins: How to Rebuild a Broken Relationship (Tony Robbins Relationships)
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RELATIONSHIPS – THE AREA OF LIFE THAT ENERGIZES ALL OTHERS
There is one area of your life that can bring you the greatest joy and excitement — or the deepest sorrow and heartbreak – the area of relationships. A broken heart can take even the fiercest warrior and bring them to their knees.
Relationships are our most intimate connections. They are the place where we dance between what we desire most, and what we fear most. Relationships magnify our existence by intensifying the force of life – our emotions. Have you felt the immense joy and surge of energy that comes when you meet your partner’s needs? That energy flows through into all other areas of your life and affects how you walk into work, the way you approach challenges, and even your physical health.
DISCOVER THE WAY TO MEET YOUR PARTNER’S DEEPEST NEEDS
In order to have a truly magnificent relationship — the kind that is so full of joy, passion, and ecstasy that it feels like a dream — you first need to understand the psychology of the six human needs.
Each of us has all six of these needs, but in varying levels. Meeting just three needs creates an addiction to a person or behaviour. Imagine if you can find a way to meet all six of your partner’s human needs. Your relationship will become a vehicle for deep and meaningful fulfilment. Ultimately, you will create a relationship where you and your partner are meeting each other’s needs – transforming your relationship into the greatest source of pleasure.
WHAT MAKES RELATIONSHIPS WORK?
THE POWER OF POLARITY
We all know opposites attract. But why is that? The answer is found in polarity.
In any relationship where there is sexual attraction and deep intimate connection — you’ll find the power of opposite energies at play. We have intense physical chemistry with those who have an opposite energy to our own. Whether masculine or feminine, this energy is not gender-based. Every man and woman has varying degrees of both masculine and feminine energy — but one is a natural dominant force inside you.
Polarity is like a light switch; it can be turned on in a moment! When it comes to love and passion, practice and cultivate your natural energy. Embody it. Embrace it. And it will energize your relationship!
FOLLOW THESE SIMPLE RULES TO CREATE AN EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIP
What makes a relationship truly extraordinary? And what weakens, or even destroys, a relationship?
It all comes down to a few simple rules. We all create rules — those things you believe have to happen in a relationship in order for you to be happy. However, when we have too many rules or our rules are determined by what we can get out of the relationship, the relationship can quickly become a nightmare.
Instead, if you want a relationship that magnifies the human experience, follow these 10 cardinal rules. And remember — a relationship is not a place you go and get something, but a place you go to give.
DEEPEN YOUR CONNECTION BY MAKING FIGHTING FUN
What do you do when you have conflicts in your relationship? Many of us have strategies to apply in other areas of our life – like our physical health or our careers – but we sometimes assume conflict in relationships will just work itself out. That if we ignore the problem, it will go away. This is a recipe for ultimate pain.
The truth is, all passionate relationships are going to have the occasional fight. The trick is to transform the conflict into opportunity by bringing more fun and energy to the relationship.
How do you do it? Next time you find yourself in a silly or familiar argument try play fighting. This will immediately change the meaning of the argument. If you raise your voice, do it in a goofy accent and jump around like an angry cartoon character. Make the whole conflict ridiculous. This eases the tension of the situation, and you will come to a resolution faster when you are both in a relaxed state from laughing at each other.
If you can make each other laugh, you will once again associate your significant other with those emotions that make you feel good.
Dare: the next time you are in a fight, turn up the fun. Make it ridiculous to ease the tension.
INNOVATE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
Did you know that 96% of all companies fail over a ten-year period? And that 40-50% of all first marriages in the United States end in divorce? Why? The reason is the same for both –– they stop marketing and innovating.
Consider this. In business, companies use marketing in order to get potential clients to want to do business with them. Likewise, they use innovation to find a way to meet the needs of the customer better than anyone else. In relationships, it’s the same.
You must continuously market and innovate with your partner.